I made this thread because... I . GIVE . UP
At least temporarily I give up. I'll snap out of it later. :lol:
Bago ako maakusahang OC or obsessive compulsive, no I'm not. I'm lazy and I can be a slob too, but to a manageable extent. I know when and where to throw trash. I don't just throw stuff on the floor as if the world was my basurahan. I have no problem letting go of things once they become of no value and start becoming a health hazard. My sister's kids are messy but her house looks like an actual house with happy children living in it. Her kids also know how to clean up. I know this sounds like a minor problem, but it's not. Without my assistance, I'm sure it's going to be way worse. I've seen my husband's room (then bf) in his aunt's old apartment and half of his bed was cluttered with random things like paper, bolt, keys, nail filings, water bottle, bottle cap, wires, toothpick, coins... Just stuff that are not supposed to be there. A normal person would be bothered by all of that but he's not. He can breathe in the same space as his pile of trash on the bed. He also doesn't shower much or clean himself. I don't know what it is...but everyone's telling me I'm bipolar or [insert mental problem here] and I have the inability to take care of myself...and here I am married to a guy who has an obvious problem taking care of himself, his belongings and letting go of old decrepit things that don't serve him well, like his super old car that he's been trying to resuscitate forever. Everyone's ignoring the elephant in the room.
It's pretty unhealthy out here. I've been doing some spring cleaning for days (um tamad ako so I don't do yung frequent general cleaning gaya sa Pinas lol) and here's what I've accomplished so far. Lahat ng pinapakita ko mga walang kwentang bagay na ayaw niya itapon. No matter how much I sort out the mess and clean it up, nagiging ga-bundok ulit ang basura dahel mukhang immune siya sa basura. When he's looking for something, hinahalukay niya and he doesn't clean up after his mess. His mom hates me to death because I took her special needs child but she must be happy too cause now she no longer has to clean up after him. Trust me, she would complain about my husband, telling me he punches holes in the wall, doesn't clean up after himself, parks his piece of shiyet car in her garage and he has empty water bottles piling up in her house. Now her problem's solved. She should probably thank me instead of making an enemy out of me. :rotfl:
This is a spot in our bedroom that I don't immediately see and marami medyas at mga mineral water diyan na nakasinget saka mga basura. Inayos ko na yan pero mas makalat yan kanina. Mga kahon na yan, walang laman. He just doesn't wanna throw them.
Yan yung laman ng drawer niya. Some of it. Damet dapat ang laman pero sinasaksak niya lang ang mga basura niya sa lalagyan niya ng damet.
That's his pokemon binder. Whenever I get mad, I threaten to throw away his Pokemon cards. I threw some of it and he got mad at me forever. I learned from that na. Touch everything except his Pokemon.
This is what you will normally see lying around the house. Stuff that don't make sense. At least yung mga collector, they have collections of certain things. He just lets garbage pile up.
He likes to keep empty boxes.
At least temporarily I give up. I'll snap out of it later. :lol:
Bago ako maakusahang OC or obsessive compulsive, no I'm not. I'm lazy and I can be a slob too, but to a manageable extent. I know when and where to throw trash. I don't just throw stuff on the floor as if the world was my basurahan. I have no problem letting go of things once they become of no value and start becoming a health hazard. My sister's kids are messy but her house looks like an actual house with happy children living in it. Her kids also know how to clean up. I know this sounds like a minor problem, but it's not. Without my assistance, I'm sure it's going to be way worse. I've seen my husband's room (then bf) in his aunt's old apartment and half of his bed was cluttered with random things like paper, bolt, keys, nail filings, water bottle, bottle cap, wires, toothpick, coins... Just stuff that are not supposed to be there. A normal person would be bothered by all of that but he's not. He can breathe in the same space as his pile of trash on the bed. He also doesn't shower much or clean himself. I don't know what it is...but everyone's telling me I'm bipolar or [insert mental problem here] and I have the inability to take care of myself...and here I am married to a guy who has an obvious problem taking care of himself, his belongings and letting go of old decrepit things that don't serve him well, like his super old car that he's been trying to resuscitate forever. Everyone's ignoring the elephant in the room.
It's pretty unhealthy out here. I've been doing some spring cleaning for days (um tamad ako so I don't do yung frequent general cleaning gaya sa Pinas lol) and here's what I've accomplished so far. Lahat ng pinapakita ko mga walang kwentang bagay na ayaw niya itapon. No matter how much I sort out the mess and clean it up, nagiging ga-bundok ulit ang basura dahel mukhang immune siya sa basura. When he's looking for something, hinahalukay niya and he doesn't clean up after his mess. His mom hates me to death because I took her special needs child but she must be happy too cause now she no longer has to clean up after him. Trust me, she would complain about my husband, telling me he punches holes in the wall, doesn't clean up after himself, parks his piece of shiyet car in her garage and he has empty water bottles piling up in her house. Now her problem's solved. She should probably thank me instead of making an enemy out of me. :rotfl:
This is a spot in our bedroom that I don't immediately see and marami medyas at mga mineral water diyan na nakasinget saka mga basura. Inayos ko na yan pero mas makalat yan kanina. Mga kahon na yan, walang laman. He just doesn't wanna throw them.
Yan yung laman ng drawer niya. Some of it. Damet dapat ang laman pero sinasaksak niya lang ang mga basura niya sa lalagyan niya ng damet.
That's his pokemon binder. Whenever I get mad, I threaten to throw away his Pokemon cards. I threw some of it and he got mad at me forever. I learned from that na. Touch everything except his Pokemon.
This is what you will normally see lying around the house. Stuff that don't make sense. At least yung mga collector, they have collections of certain things. He just lets garbage pile up.
He likes to keep empty boxes.